Not That Chick

  Dear Normal Chicks, How do you do it? I mean really, what is your secret? I keep trying and trying and it never fails, I keep finding out I am just not that chick. Which chick you ask? The normal one. Let me give you the scenario: I have had the same guy best … Continue reading

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Not the Righteous Rape

If it wasn’t for Date Rape He’d never get laid. Aaaahh… Sublime circa 1992. There I am at 12 years old rebelliously using my parents’ coffee table as a stage with three of my best friends, belting out the lyrics to Date Rape. To us there’s nothing more to that song than a catchy beat … Continue reading

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30 Years Later

Dear God, Thank you for bringing me into this world. It has been an amazing 30 year journey and I look forward to all that the next 30 will bring and the 30 after that. My favorite story is the one my Godmother tells me each year and this year has been no different. 30 … Continue reading

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Halfway Ever After

Dear Male Species,  I have been highly in review of you over the past couple years and what I’ve noticed and pondered upon is that you didn’t grow up with the dream of Happily Ever After the way we girls did. Which is the only reason I can think of to explain why you would … Continue reading

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He WAS Your Boyfriend

Dear Ladies, While my last post was a hit amongst the ladies and many of us found ourselves relating to it on some level there were many men who were not excited about the gender bias it showed. Much the same as Ntozake Shange stated in her the foreword of her most recent release of … Continue reading

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Footprints…

Dear Greenhouse NY,  Thank you again for allowing your space to be filled up with the sounds of J-Harris’ Love Jones NYC. As my footprints echoed down Vandam last night after slipping away from yet another amazing showcase hosted by J-Harris I looked around and watched as the energy and pulsating sound of the Greenhouse … Continue reading

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With You I’m Born Again

Dear Shonda Rhimes, Here’s the thing about your Season Premiere of “Grey’s Anatomy“. It was good. It always is. You have done amazing work with that show and seeing as how I have seen every episode in Six Seasons, most several times over it is the longest running love affair I have ever had with … Continue reading

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September Love in NYC

Dear Love, The start of this Brand New Season has officially turned me into a melting, fawning, eye-batting, lip-smacking, hand clasped at her chest girly-girl. Every day I fall deeper and deeper in love with something and every day I am left to wonder how this happened knowing that this is the season of love, … Continue reading

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Hate on Me Hater

Dear Jill Scott, This past week I pulled out Volume 3 album and have been listening to it and hearing it differently for the first time in so many aspects. It’s exactly as you describe it, a very adult album but one of the thing you also says in reference to your song Hate on … Continue reading

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